How many of you remember the scene in “When Harry Met Sally,” when Meg Ryan fakes the big “O” in a diner, to show how easy it is for a woman to do. According to our favorite TV M.D.–Dr. Oz, she’s not the only one–reports state that 65% of women fake orgasms. I never understood why females over the age of 21 fake it. What does this really accomplish, except to stroke the male ego and leave you wanting some good lovin’? Is making your partner feel “like the man,” worth you not getting sexual gratification?
I would think if you are putting effort into faking an orgasm then you can put that same effort into teaching him a few things. Do you want to have sex with someone who doesn’t satisfy you? How long can you keep up the pretense before he finds out? Contrary to what women belief, men actually want to know what makes us purr like a cat.
I know many women who have faked because they’re tired, what to get it over with, or it just wasn’t good and they don’t want afraid to hurt their partner’s feelings. Whatever the reason–you are only cheating yourself and like Rhianna so eloquently says: “Baby, baby if I don’t feel it, I ain’t faking…no…no”