As my girlfriend said, “Men don’t know their place, because of the women who give them some head after a trip to the drive-thru at McDonalds.” Thank you Lorelei girl. Why the harsh words, well because some men are tripping. After a brief dating encounter, I was noted as “selfish,” who me? Shoot, talk about a good laugh. Of course, I had to tell this story with flair to my girlfriends and yes Nicky, “it’s all about getting some.” Now, although I’m a whopping 32 years old, my black @$$ is old school. This means, you are courting me, I am the prey and you are the damn Hunter—so HUNT!!? The rewards come at the end of the finishing line.
I am shocked to hear from a few guys that stated: “We now have options, and a dude should be wined and dined too.” GTFOH, are you serious? Since when did men not play their position? Doesn’t a true gentleman pay? It amazes me how the dating world has changed and not for the better.
I want to blame it all on the “chicken heads” who allow men to get away with treating them less than a woman but the same could be said for the feminist, who have fooled themselves into believing they don’t need a man to do anything for them–whatever! Why do some men think that by picking up the tab a few times that means direct entry into my goodies? Negative! Truth be told, I have no objections to a woman paying—if she so chooses, but I do have a problem with men who keep a running score of who pays for what.
I am a woman who wine and dine herself, I don’t need a man to take me out for a meal, that’s not what this is about. It’s about a man understanding that a quality woman wants to be treated with respect and chivalry and in the end the world is your oyster.
How many women have a similar experience comes to dating? How many of you always pick-up the tab or go dutch? Guys, do you always pay in the beginning?
